Mind And Body United
The greatest companies of our time have one thing in common,
as discovered by researchers—a set of common beliefs of excellence. We all have
beliefs, at to some degree or another our beliefs either limit or potential or
unlock our greatness. It seems that these common beliefs bring success to those
that are taught them and apply them in their business dealing. Are these
magical statements or chants with mystical powers. No, not at all. They are
beliefs, that if held as true, change the holders view of the world, making
people better learners, patient, inquisitive and curious. All of these are the
underlying traits of great business.
In a series of articles I have discussed 5 of these beliefs.
With there being a total 10 beliefs of excellence, I continue the series here
with the belief statement: Mind and Body are part of the Same System.
This may seem as if I am stating the obvious here, however,
very few people understand the concept. I cannot separate my mind from the
reactions it causes in my body, nor can I change the effect my body has on my
mind. It is quite simple—what affects us physically affects us emotionally and
vice versa. Have you ever seen the body posture of someone that is excited?
Naturally, they smile, their eyes are wide open, their chin is up, and energy
abounds. Could you ever associate this type of body language with someone that
is down trodden and depressed? No, of course not. Someone that is feeling down
trodden and depressed will demonstrate behaviour that is common with that type
of thinking.
Have you ever been worried about something? Where you aware
of what that worry did to your body? Did you notice some muscle tension? Do you
get headaches when you stress? Does your skin react adversely to adversity? Do
you suffer weight loss when you feel anxiety? All these are emotional symptoms
having a direct result on our physical bodies. What about the other way around?
Have you ever had a toothache but where still able to fully enjoy a Friday
night out? I doubt it. Do you recall the last time you had serious pain? The
chances are that you walked around (or lay down) feeling sorry for your-self,
fed up and a little depressed.
Our internal system, i.e.: our perceptions, emotions and
thoughts—cause and simultaneous reaction in our body. When we interact with
someone else, and we perceive their external reactions—our subconscious mind
picks up he signals, and helps us understand their internal communications to
make sense of the world. A side effect of our cyber world of emailing and
texting has caused people to lose their ability to correctly decipher the
signals others send out when we are communicating face to face.
By learning to control either one you automatically learn TO
CONTROL THE OTHER. This control will also allow you to perceive and better
understand the full—internal and external—representations that other people
will provide during their communication with you. This control also allows you
to better choose the ideal response for the situation—whether it be an
emotional response or a physical response. Instead of just being a reactionary
to outside stimulation you assume pro-active responses to those stimuli. This
control returns the power and responsibility of reaching our ultimate goal to
us personally.
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